Thursday, May 5, 2011

Gift Idea No. 14 - Gift Giving Superstitions and Legends

Superstitions: There are a lot of superstitions and legends involving the giving and receiving of gifts. For instance it was at one time considered bad luck to give a pair of scissors or a knife as a gift because it was feared that the act would "cut" the friendship in half. Therefore knives were never given as wedding gifts as it was believed they would lead to a broken marriage.

Also never give anyone a pair of shoes as a Christmas gift because they would make the person you give them to walk away from you. When you give someone a gift of a wallet or purse be sure to put some money into it, even if only a coin, to ward off bad luck. At one time bakers would throw in an extra roll when you bought a dozen as a "gift" in case any of the other rolls were too small. This "gift" became known as the baker's dozen.

Urban legends: Legends are told as having happened long, long ago whereas urban legends are set in contemporary times and told as having happened to people known either personally to the teller or to someone known by a person the teller knows. The places and names change as they are updated to fit current times and all carry a warning or lesson of some sort. There may even be some truth to the story although the people and places have been changed so many times that it becomes hard to determine what the truth actually was.

One such tale recounts a king's offer of a gift to a famous golfer (sometimes the golfer is named other times he is just "a famous golfer") who after first declining the gift asks for a golf club only to find to his amazement that the king has bought him an entire golf course.

In several different legends, although the people and circumstances change the story and its warning are the same. A son (nephew, daughter, niece...) is expecting a very expensive gift (car, house, inheritance...) from his father (uncle, aunt...) but receives a bible. In a fit of anger he throws the bible at the giver and leaves not returning until the givers death when he notices the bible from so long ago, opens it and finds the (key to the car, check to the car dealer, will leaving him everything etc.).

Then there are the one-up-manship legends. Two or more siblings vie to get the best gift for their mother (houses, cars, jewels) with one going to great expense to get a bird (myna, parrot...) that has been specially trained (to read the bible, sing opera, speak Italian...). The mother politely thanks all (while letting them know their gift wasn't very practical) then speaks proudly of the child who had the sense to bring her the delicious chicken.

There is also a true story of two brothers who re-gifted the same pair of pants back and forth wrapped in very creative ways, from rolling them into a 3' long 1" wide pipe to stuffing them into the glove compartment of a car that they then had crushed and delivered in time for Christmas. The pants went back and forth for 25 years before they finally fell apart.

Gift Idea No. 14 - The Pefect Solution for Hard-to-buy-For Person

When it comes to the Christmas season there are many different ways that you can shop for the people on your list. You can either take a list with you everywhere you go of all the different things that people like or you can simply ask the people in your life straight out what they want for Christmas. There are all sorts of ways to find the best gifts for everyone on your list, although chances are that there may just be those hard-to-buy-for people in your life that won't be pleased with anything that you buy for them. If this is the case, however, you may just want to invest in a gift basket for that individual! Indeed, there is nothing wrong with buying a gift basket if you have searched high and low for the perfect gift for a specific individual, and here are some things to think about if you're going to rely on gift baskets as the perfect gift solution:

Remember the Individual

Even though gift baskets may be an easy product or gift to come across in a store, though, you definitely still want to remember the individual that you're buying for. Because there are so many types of gift baskets on the market today may mean that you actually have to think before you buy one. In other words, there are plenty of different themes and styles that a gift basket can come in.

From sports memorabilia, like specific football teams all the way to gift cooking utensil and cookbooks, just about anything can be crammed into a gift basket these days. So before you go just picking one random gift basket off the shelf from a store you must be sure to examine it to make sure that it's a good gift basket for the person that you're buying. Of course, many gift baskets will have generic-type of gifts, such as candies and other types of food, which are perfect for those people that are so hard to buy gifts for!

Add Your Own Touch!

Another thing to remember about buying and giving a gift basket is that you should definitely include your personality with the gift basket as well. In other words there are probably some things that you can do in order to liven up the outside of the gift basket. One idea to take along would be to purchase a greeting card and attach it somehow to the gift basket itself. The outside of the gift basket can even be decorated to your liking as well, or the whole basket can be wrapped in wrapping paper complete with a bow and gift tag! There are all sorts of ways to add your style, creativity, and personality to this gift you are giving.

These are two of the most important aspects of giving gift baskets away that one should remember. Adding your own touch to the gift basket for the person you love, as well as buying the perfect themed-gift basket are both very important ideas when it comes to buying a gift basket

Gift Idea No. 13 - Gift Baskets: Are They Really Worth It?

Just as there are plenty of holidays around the world and throughout the year there are also many different types of people that everyone has to buy gifts for. Fortunately, if you have been given the satisfaction of having a small family then that at least makes things a bit easier as far as the amount of gifts that you have to buy, but perhaps you have made up for it with the amount of friends you have. Nevertheless, many people think that buying gifts is a difficult process even though we should all be used to it by the time we become adults. However, one solution that many people use to streamline the process of buying gifts for each individual is to buy a series of gift baskets for each person so that they'll be able to enjoy a variety of things. This mentality is pretty sound reasoning; however, one should really try to look at whether gift baskets are really worth the price paid for them in the first place.

The Cost

Thinking about everything that goes into a typical gift basket, is the cost of the whole gift basket package really worth all of the gifts that are put inside. Of course the answer will be a big "no" because the majority of the price of the gift basket will naturally be the basket itself! This is one reason why gift baskets are simply not worth the money spent on them. The majority of the value has to do with the actual basket, which means that instead of putting money towards a gift that the special person in your life will really love you are essentially giving them a basket as a present.

The Time & Effort

On the other hand, if you choose not to buy a gift basket from a retail store then another option that you always have is to make the gift basket yourself. Even though this may be a noble venture, is the time and effort of creating a gift basket from scratch really worth it? There is the whole personal aspect of doing something like this, but the time and effort that was spent purchasing small gifts to place inside a gift basket could have been focused on buying a larger, more perfect gift for the special person you're buying for!

Why People Give Them

Of course there may be a wide range of reasons why gift baskets are given in the first place. For many people gift baskets are simply easier to give because they don't really take much time to find anyway, such as the ones you see in retail stores like Wal-Mart! On the other hand, giving gift baskets away might say that you have added a personal touch to the gift if you have actually created it from scratch. Both of these are good reasons to buy gift baskets, however, one decision that many people make is to simply buy gift baskets for everyone on their list to get the gift-buying season over-with. If this is your mentality then buying a gift basket may actually not be your best route to take. Nevertheless, though, the fact of the matter is that gift baskets are given to people all over the world and they are well-received by virtually everyone who gets them

Gift Idea No. 12 - Gift Basket Ideas for Women

If you have a woman in your life whom you need to buy a present for whether it be Christmas, a birthday, New Year's, Thanksgiving, Valentine's Day, Sweetest Day, or any of the special days that you and her share then chances are that you will also have to give her a gift. Many men love showering the women in their life with gifts galore, but for some it can actually be quite a tough challenge!

For this reason many men over the years have resorted to simply buying generic gift baskets that may be filled with unrecognizable perfumes, chocolate candies, as well as a variety of other soap and deodorant products. Indeed, these are some of the most common products and gifts that are usually included with pre-packed gift baskets, but chances are that there aren’t enough intimate gifts in these gift baskets to satisfy either you or her.

Creating a gift basket doesn't have to be that difficult and there are plenty of ways that men can do it without a whole lot of extra fluff or worry, too. If you enjoy being creative on the other hand then you may have a few ideas of your own. Nevertheless, filling a gift basket with all sorts of products for her that will be well received should be done if you can not find any other suitable gift for the special woman in your life.

Perfumes

Yes, perfumes are some of the products that are thrown in generic gift baskets, but those kinds of perfumes are not the ones that are going to be carefully placed in the gift basket you are going to create. On the contrary, chances are that if you know your special lady well enough, be it your girlfriend or wife, then you also know many of the perfumes that you like to smell on her and that she loves wearing! The amount of perfume that you buy for the gift basket doesn't have to be a great amount considering that other gifts will be in the basket as well. But perhaps buying a 2-3 ounce perfume bottle will be good enough for the gift basket.

Jewelry

On the other hand, jewelry isn't usually placed in a generic, pre-packaged gift basket. But if you know that she loves jewelry and you have gotten jewelry for her in the past then this definitely is a definite must to place in the gift basket. Whether you want to invest in an expensive diamond ring to place in the center of the gift basket or you want to buy less expensive necklaces and rings to place throughout the gift basket itself, jewelry can be a great addition to the gift basket!

Lingerie

Even though you may never have thought about lingerie being placed in a gift basket for you special girlfriend, wife, or lover this can be a good piece of clothing for you and her! In addition, laying the lingerie out discreetly on the bottom of the gift basket itself will be like a whole other surprise in itself. The lingerie can be used as a gift basket bottom layer so that the other gifts can be set on top.

All in all, these gifts are great to be placed in a gift basket and chances are that she'll love every bit of it! Just remember: when making a gift basket for your wife or girlfriend stick to the most romantic gifts that you can think of to put in the gift basket.